Why is male contraception prohibited in Jewish law?
QUESTION: I am the father of one of your students at Rockhurst University. This is a strange avenue of posing a question to you. My daughter came home from one of your lectures in the course you teach there and in discussing her studies mentioned that you said that in Jewish law contraception or birth control on the part of the Jewish man is forbidden under virtually all circumstances. We are passed child-bearing age so this is irrelevant to us personally; however, I was shocked to find this out. I am surprised that no one talks about these things.
ANSWER: Yes, this is a strange route for my receiving a question sent to me. There are not very many Jewish students at Rockhurst University, but your daughter is obviously one. In our introduction course to Judaism we discuss lifecycle events and included in that are issues like contraception and abortion. Most Jews, even better read and intelligent ones, are shocked to find out that Jewish law has a whole gamut of views on both contraception and abortion.
Most traditional and Orthodox Jews will, under many circumstances, practice contraception. If you look around the community you will see that except for Chassidim or exceptionally pious Jews, generally speaking, the size of families of most religiously practicing Jews is not unusually large. Obviously, most modern Orthodox and traditional Jews are practicing some form of birth control during their child-bearing years.
This topic is discussed extensively in the Talmud and elsewhere, including many religious rulings and articles that have been written throughout the Middle Ages and in modern centuries as well.
What I said is correct. Namely, that under virtually all circumstances male contraception is prohibited in Jewish law. This is not a sexist, male chauvinist issue! I want to be very clear about this. In Chapter 9 of Genesis when Noah and his family exit the Ark after the Flood, G-d commands “Noah and his sons to populate the world and fill it.” What the verse is talking about is that after the Flood, Noah and his sons are commanded to really “repopulate” the world. The standard interpretation of that verse as well as other episodes in Genesis, including Judah and his sons in a separate incident involving a woman known as Tamar, leads the rabbis and Jewish law to mandate a prohibition against male contraception. Since “Noah and his sons” were commanded to “populate the world and fill it,” that verse is seen as preventing men from any form of contraception.
The danger of a column like this is that this is a very involved and somewhat complicated topic and I am not doing justice to it or the analysis of it by a short response, which this column necessitates. I devoted close to a half an hour in my lecture to this very topic so obviously my response here has to be very brief and perhaps unfair to an intelligent discussion of the total theme.
Since the Torah does not address women at all in that verse or these discussions, the rabbis that do permit contraception in a Jewish marriage say that birth control, therefore, should be left in the hands of the women. In this day and age with wonderfully effective forms of female contraception in a whole variety of ways, without going into details in this column, contraception can very successfully and satisfactorily be practiced in any Jewish marriage by the wife.