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A few years ago, when Ward Katz was president of the Jewish Federation of Greater Kansas City and Steve Israelite’s list of clients seeking his help to find employment was growing steadily, a light bulb went on in Katz’s head.

The population of Kansas City, like many smaller communities across the country, is getting older. Recognizing that the future of any community is dependent upon its ability to attract young professionals, Katz had the idea to create a program to identify and recruit young individuals, ages 21 to 40, and their families who might be interested in returning to or remaining in Kansas City.

Imagine Jewish Kansas City, a joint initiative of the Federation and Jewish Vocational Services, was established in November 2008 to assist these young professionals by engaging them with a network of peers and mentors.

Imagine Jewish KC (www.imaginejewishkc.org) couldn’t have been launched at a more challenging – or more needed time.

“Our original intent was to identify individuals interested in relocating to Kansas City and to provide them with the support to make it happen,” said Beth Jacobson, Imagine Jewish KC coordinator. “But we started when everything fell apart in the economy. So at first we focused on helping people who had lost jobs, and we were able to assist 39 people in finding employment.”

Since then, Gayl Reinsch joined Jewish Family Services as director of Jewish Employment Services. Now she’s now the go-to person for help in finding employment. This frees up Cheryl Intrater, director of career management service at JVS, to continue consulting on resume writing and interviewing skills, along with Joyce Hill, who recently came on staff as an additional career coach. Hill’s position was added during the recession to handle the resulting client overload. This realignment allows Imagine Jewish KC to return to its original focus of helping people like Brian Furey and Taly Yeyni build happy and fulfilling lives in Kansas City.

Networking to success

“The biggest thing Imagine Jewish KC helped me with was networking,” said Furey, who met Kansas City native Amy Ravis when she was in graduate school in New York City. “We bought an apartment in New Jersey, but after we had our son, Michael, it sounded like a good idea to move back to Amy’s home town.”

On a visit here before moving in September 2009, the couple met with Jacobson. Within days after the move, Furey contacted Jacobson and Intrater.

“My biggest problem,” said Furey, who graduated from Fordham University in the Bronx and had worked for a financial data services company since 2000, “was that I hadn’t had to look for a job in nine years. I had to dust off my old resume and I knew nothing about networking.

“The most important thing Beth helped me with was the networking, putting me in touch with job clubs, giving me names of people in the community and encouraging me to give them a call. She also referred me to Lorrie Eigles [a career coach for JVS at the time], a certified life coach, who helped me redo my resume, target positions and really polish my networking skills.”

Furey was hired as assistant financial analyst at the law firm of Gilmore and Bell in April 2010. To fill downtime during his job search, he volunteered for the Temple B’nai Jehudah Purim Carnival, where his wife Amy works.

Out of college

Taly, from Seattle, made a lot of friends from the Midwest who were in the program she attended in Israel during high school.

“I thought I needed to get back to the Midwest,” she said. “Then I visited KU and fell in love with it.”

After completing an internship in Seattle and graduating with a bachelor’s degree in community health in May 2009, Taly began her job search in the two cities she knew best: Seattle and Kansas City.    

“Having a degree in a narrow field with no work experience other than my internship, it was hard to find positions I was qualified for,” said Taly. “I talked to Jay Lewis, executive director at KU Hillel, who put me in touch with Beth Jacobson. Beth told me about the Nonprofit Connect website that lists nonprofit jobs (www.npconnect.org), where I saw a nutrition education job opening at Harvesters through AmeriCorps.”

After her year in AmeriCorps ended, facing the prospect of another job search, Taly reconnected with Jacobson.

“We brainstormed,” said Taly. “She encouraged me to attend Nonprofit Connect’s Nonprofit Job Club, gave me ideas of organizations to explore, and put me in touch with nutritionists. She also connected me with Cheryl Intrater, who helped me shape my experience and build my interviewing skills so when I went to interviews I would be successful.”

Successful she was. Taly started in a full-time position at Harvesters in September 2010, as a nutrition education coordinator. In addition, she finds time to be the BBYO advisor for the B’not Lev chapter and work as a para-educator with special needs students at Congregation Beth Shalom.

“Besides the job aspect, Beth gave me names of people right out of college who had moved to Kansas City,” said Taly. “Imagine Jewish KC was really helpful in getting connected socially.”

Ensuring a vibrant future

Jacobson is reaching out in every way to identify individuals who may be ripe to move or return to Kansas City, from encouraging employers to recruit from Jewish communities nationwide to partnering with the Greater Kansas City Chamber of Commerce’s GenKC initiative, which holds three to four events throughout the year. When young professionals are home for the holidays, she also hosts events where they can meet peers who have recently moved back and she can find out how Imagine Jewish KC can help them explore the possibilities.

“The message we want to get is across is that this isn’t your bubbe’s Kansas City,” said Jacobson. “We have a vibrant community with much to offer any young professional. Kansas City is family oriented and affordable, with good schools, easy commutes, amazing cultural opportunities and exciting urban living options. In short, we offer the amenities of a big city without the headaches.”

The only thing Jacobson asks of the community is to let her know what she can do to help your child, grandchild, loved one or friend who may be interested in moving to Kansas City.

“Just give me names and contact information,” she said. “I want to help them have that reality and connect them to the resources that are here … and there are a ton of them!”

Refer a friend

If you would like more information about Imagine Jewish KC, or would like to refer a friend or loved one, contact:

Beth Jacobson
Imagine Jewish KC Coordinator
5801 W. 115th Street, Suite 201
Overland Park, KS 66211
913-981-8896
www.imaginejewishkc.org

Patrons who enter Llywelyn’s Pub (6995 W. 151st, Overland Park), are immediately immersed in a classic, Celtic pub, celebrating the food and drink of Ireland, Scotland and Wales. The restaurant’s concept made its way from Europe to Old Stanley, Kan., by way of Missouri’s Interstate 70. The first Llywelyn’s Pub was in the Central West End area of St. Louis. Two more of these pubs opened in the St. Louis area before Llywelyn’s opened in our town on July 17, 2007. Note to St. Louis: go ahead and send Albert Pujols up I-70, while you are at it.

Not just any restaurant space would support the Celtic pub motif, but owner Eric Pritchett clearly gave considerable thought to the décor. The place has a comfortable, intimate feel — despite the high ceilings and brass, saloon chandeliers. Dark wooden tables, dark hardwood floors, and rust colored walls underscore the cozy feel. The bar area takes up about half the place, and a dining area takes up the other half. As night wears on, Llywelyn’s often becomes a haven for live music, and a wilder crowd; but by day and early evening, folks of all sorts swarm the place. During one visit for dinner, we watched the Swiss Family Robinson enjoy a meal in the middle of the dining room, while the cast of Sex and the City drank their meal on the fringe of the bar area, three steps up from the dining area. The apparent membership of a Ramones tribute band wandered in just as we completed our meal.

Pub food is heavily rooted in appetizer fare. Pub Pretzels ($3, $5.50, $7.50 for one, two and three, respectively), were not monumentally different from the ball park cuisine, though they were fresher tasting and were brushed with a nice garlic butter. A creamy and flavorful pepper cheese sauce (laced with small bits of jalapeno), was served alongside. The skin on top of the cheese suggested it may have been sitting, for a bit, before it was served to us. Welsh Potato Chips ($2.99, $3.99) were a very good, crispy version of homemade chips (to which I was compelled to add a shake of salt). They were served with a choice of the solid pepper cheesensauce, or rarebit (a pale, yellow Guinness cheddar cheese sauce that was somewhat heavy on the Guinness).

Chicken wings are a “bellwether” dish for American bars and European pubs, alike. We tried the Dragon Wings ($7.99), a full pound served with original or extra spicy “Dragon’s Breath” Sauce. The original-flavored wings were of moderate size, and the small drummie was separated from the wing portion, as is common in most places. Coated with a rather basic and standard buffalo sauce, the original wings were fairly spicy. The extra spicy version likely packs a serious wallop.

Some folks still harbor the mistaken belief that the Reuben sandwich is somehow an Irish dish. The iconic sandwich was likely invented in the early part of the 20th Century by prominent New York delicatessen owner Arnold Reuben, though some believe it was created a number of years later in Omaha, by a Lithuanian grocer. Notwithstanding the sandwich’s contrary origins, this Celtic pub deemed the Llywelyn’s Reuben ($9.29) a restaurant signature dish, and with fairly good reason. The thick, lean and tender corned beef rested amid three slices of nice marble rye (one in the middle), with plenty of kraut, thousand island and (in an odd twist) white cheddar in lieu of the more traditional Swiss cheese. Though there was a decent helping of the superior corned beef, it was not piled high like it would have been in a prominent New York deli — like Arnold Reuben’s now-defunct place, presumably.

An excellent and hearty option was the Famous Steak and Cheese ($11.59), with delicious, tender, marinated chunks of flank steak served atop a giant hoagie-style roll, smothered with the pepper cheese sauce and a mound of fried onions. The waiter asked how I wanted the steak cooked — unusually astute for a casual pub. It came out a perfect medium, as ordered. The flavorful Llywelyn Burger ($8.29), a thick six-ounce burger, was also cooked as one friend ordered it (dead on medium well), and was topped with fried onions and a choice from a broad array of cheeses. The Famous Steak and Cheese and the Llywelyn Burger were also identified as restaurant specialties — again, with fairly good reason.

We ventured reluctantly into the seafood realm, as well. Fish and Chips ($9.99) — the better choice of the two sampled dishes from the sea — is an English pub classic. Llywelyn’s version included two long, hefty pieces of flaky white fish in a batter that was only marginally crunchy. The fish came with a house-made tartar sauce that was not overwhelmed with too much relish, like some versions. Traditional pub fare is not, by design, geared to the light salad crowd. Still one dining companion opted for a designated “new” menu item, a Salmon Sandwich ($9.95). The fairly unremarkable 6-ounce portion was grilled to about medium, with only a slight grilled flavor, and was served atop a toasted whole wheat bun. I understand the need and compulsion for restaurants (and pubs) to offer an array of culinary choices. But one should generally refrain from ordering a steak at The Bristol, or McCormick and Schmick‘s, if at all possible. And a wise diner avoids salmon (and other such light or misplaced fare) at a sturdy, Celtic pub.

As we left the restaurant one night, we noticed that the Swiss Family Robinson was ordering dessert. The Sex and the City group was paying its tab. Joey Ramone had just bitten into an enormous sandwich covered with cheese sauce, of some sort. And the “wild” crowd had not even arrived, yet, for the night.

Food: 3 stars

Atmosphere: 3 1/2 stars

Service: 3 stars

Out of Four Stars

The kids all seem to agree about B’Yachad: A Community of Jewish Teens Cultivating, Exploring and Expanding Jewish Identity — the CAJE/Jewish Federation of Greater Kansas City program that replaced the Community High School this year.

They like learning about things that affect their everyday lives, and they like learning about them with Jewish kids from all segments of the community whom they might not otherwise encounter. And, according to Samantha Feinberg, CAJE/Federation’s Learning for Life associate, that’s exactly what was hoped for when B’Yachad was conceived.

“We’re trying hard to emphasize that participants need not be enrolled in religious school or the Hebrew Academy,” said Feinberg. “They don’t even have to be affiliated with a congregation. Students in grades seven through 10 are encouraged to attend, it’s free and no RSVPs are required.”

“B’Yachad basically has two goals,” explained Feinberg. “The first, in the short-term is to provide high quality, age-appropriate learning experiences for the kids. The second longer-term goal is to foster their ability as adults to care about their Judaism and to encourage them to become learners for life. That can’t happen unless we provide thought-provoking activities with room to socialize.”

Last August, to determine what teens find thought-provoking, Feinberg organized a committee of students and educators to brainstorm themes for three Wednesday night sessions throughout the year.

The theme chosen for the first program, held Nov. 3 at the Jewish Community Campus, was “Interfaith Relations: Understanding More about My Judaism and Learning about My Christian and Muslim Neighbor.”

Two hundred kids registered in advance. When more than 230 showed up for pizza at 6:30 p.m., planners knew they were on the right track.

One of the most popular stations that evening featured Christian and Muslim teens from area schools. “I realized there are a lot of religions out there that are really different but alike at the same time, and that we need to respect each other’s religions,” said Overland Trail Middle School seventh grader Corey Minkoff.

The second program, coming up on Feb. 2, will address the theme of “Ethical Dilemmas:  Exploring Daily Decisions that Challenge Us,” with breakout sessions on “How Jewish Values and Ethics Can Help Create Healthy Relationships In Our Lives.”

“I think it will be interesting because it will be how your personal morals tie in with your Jewish morals,” said Gaby Azorsky, a ninth-grader at Shawnee Mission East. “It will focus on topics like keeping relationships with friends, boyfriends and girlfriends healthy, respecting other religions, stopping anti-Semitism, dealing with peer pressure and just a little about bullying because we hear so much about that in school.”

A community service component is built into all three programs. On Feb. 2, it will relate to the evening’s theme by focusing on peers at-risk in part because of unhealthy relationship in their lives. Participants are being asked to donate personal care/hygiene items to teens being helped by Synergy Services.

The third program, “A Radical Seder: Share Your Seder Customs and Learn New Ways to Present an Old Story,” is scheduled for April 6.
The opportunity to meet and socialize with peers is clearly what kids find most appealing about B’Yachad, which also happens to be the Hebrew word for together.

Emma Benson, a Lakewood Middle School eighth-grader, said what she liked best about the program was being with everybody. She added, “I met this girl who doesn’t go to my synagogue. We had a lot in common because we’re all Jewish and it was neat when I saw her a few weeks later at Temple B’nai Jehudah.”

“In one of my groups,” said Gaby, “there were two Orthodox girls who are home schooled, and they talked about things they did, like fasting several times a year, that I didn’t even know about.”

“I enjoyed having four whole grades and seeing lots of different kids,” said Indian Hills eighth grader Morgan Krakow. “It’s nice to have a big circle of friends from different schools who what you have in common with is being Jewish. I didn’t even know there were that many Jewish kids in Kansas City!”

Calling all teens

All Jewish teens in grades seven to 10, regardless of affiliation, are invited to B’Yachad at 6:30 p.m. Wednesday, Feb. 2. All activities are free of charge and include a free pasta dinner. The topic for the evening is “Ethical Dilemmas: Exploring Daily Decisions that Challenge Us.” For more information contact Samantha Feinberg at (913) 981-8801 or .

Visit the SADD website (Students Against Destructive Decisions) and you’ll find a staggering number of statistics regarding teenage drinking. One statistic states that more than half (58 percent) of high school seniors report they’ve been drunk at least once in their life. About 20 percent of eighth-graders report having been drunk at least once in their life.

Recently some Jewish parents got the call to come pick up their teenage children, all either 15 or 16 years old, from a local youth group event. Susie Hurst, who wears many hats for Jewish Family Services including being the adolescent specialist for C.H.A.I. (Channeling Healthy Adolescent Interaction), said underage drinking isn’t a new problem in the Jewish community.

“I would be absolutely shocked if a parent of a high-schooler didn’t know drinking was going on,” Hurst said.

As the statistics show, many people aren’t aware just how young the drinking is starting. Hurst estimates it begins in middle school.
“Some of the statistics I’ve seen is that the average age when kids first try alcohol is about 12,” she said, noting it often begins at parties.

Begin discussions early

Hurst believes parents should begin talking about the dangers of drinking as soon as middle school begins, or even sooner.

“That’s when they need to know that even just a few drinks begins to affect judgment, including getting involved sexually, damage to property and physical injuries,” she said.

But once parents learn their teen may be drinking, Hurst advises them to avoid lecturing.

“That might make you feel better, but they won’t listen to it,” Hurst said.

Asking open-ended question is a good way to start a conversation, according to Hurst.

“Instead of interrogating, ask your teen if the people at the party are the people he or she wants to hang out with even though there was drinking,” she said.

Hurst said the most important influence a parent has with a teen is the fact that there is an open-door policy where anything, even if it’s uncomfortable, can be discussed.

“They need to know that they can come and talk to you and know that they won’t be screamed and lectured out. When screaming and lecturing happens, they just shut down. The poor behavior will happen, you just won’t know about it,” she said.

“Even though you prefer those behaviors aren’t happening, at least if you know about it, it gives you the opportunity to have the discussions and find out what’s going on. Our major goal as parents is to keep them safe,” she continued.

It’s important, Hurst said, for teens to know that they can be honest with their parents about anything.

“Make sure they feel that they can talk to you without being punished,” she continued. “Let’s say your teen told you Janey Doe was drinking at the party. If you then say you’re going to call Janey’s mother, your teen will never confide in you again. You need to understand the importance of them being honest with you and not punishing them for it.”

Hurst said parents need to be aware that drinking is happening at parties, and they should discuss that with their teens in an open, honest way.

“You don’t want to push them in a way that the teen would have to be deceitful,” Hurst said. “I would ask them, when you go to these parties are they cool about kids that don’t want to drink or is it uncomfortable for you?”

Hurst said it’s important for teens to trust their intuition, and if they feel the least bit uncomfortable or feel unsafe, then they should call you to come pick them up.

“Some families create a code word that means “come get me now” so that the teen on the other end of the line doesn’t have to go into details,” she said.

 Keep an open mind

If parents get the call to pick up a teens from an event because of alcohol use, Hurst said the first thing to do is to make sure the teen has not been unjustly accused.

“A parent should always say explain to me what happened” and then say “I need you to be honest with me,” Hurst said.

“Really give your teen a chance to explain what happened and listen to their side of the story,” Hurst said. “They need to realize that you aren’t going to attack them. And you don’t want to sacrifice the relationship you have with your teen by being unfair or overreacting.”

If a teen admits to drinking, Hurst said it’s best to continue the conversation in the morning. Then Hurst suggests that the parents and teen discuss exactly what happened and why such behavior is a problem for the parents. She said to make it clear that the teen has gone against the family’s rules and expectations about drinking.

She said hopefully before this happened, parents have already had the conversation with the teen explaining “we know drinking goes on, but we prefer that you choose not to drink.” Hurst said statistics are showing that those types of conversations between parents and teens “really has an impact and at least delays drinking until an older age.”

After that, Hurst said to explain to the teen that he or she will have to earn the parents’ trust again. One of the ways that will happen is by the parents taking steps such as calling the adults in charge of the next party as well as making sure the teen checks in with the parents from the host’s land line, not their personal cell phone.

Hurst said it’s important to let the teen know that he or she can earn back privileges and trust.

She notes that not all infractions are the same and that a different, stricter tone may need to be taken if this is a teen’s second or third offense. On the other hand, there must be a zero tolerance regarding drinking and driving. Not only are there serious legal ramifications but the end result can be deadly.

Hurst also wants it known that parents shouldn’t assume there will not be alcohol or other illegal substances because the party is in a “nice neighborhood” or being hosted by a Jewish family.

“That doesn’t have anything to do with anything,” Hurst said.

All local Jewish youth groups are affiliated with national movements and have strict policies against drinking and illegal substances.

NFTY, which has chapters at congregations Beth Torah and B’nai Jehudah, requires its members and their parents to sign a B’rit K’hilah — Code of Conduct contract. These rules cover a variety of issues including the pledge not to “possess, consume or distribute alcoholic beverages … even if I am of legal drinking age.” The same goes for illegal drugs, tobacco products, firearms and any other activity that can be considered an illegal act. United Synagogue Youth, which is affiliated with Congregation Beth Shalom, and BBYO, also have similar policies.

Three local youth directors — Debi Tozer of BBYO, Marcia Rittmaster of Beth Torah’s NFTY and Stephanie Williams of USY — say they rarely have issues with teens and drinking. But they all take the issue very seriously and make sure that their members know the rules before an event and the consequences they will face should they break them.

BBYO has about 175 members here and is the largest of the local youth groups. Director Tozer said she rarely has to deal with teens drinking. Recently, however, she did punish teens for breaking the rules.

“I don’t think I’ve had to do it more than once a year,” she said.

Tozer said BBYO teens caught drinking are automatically dismissed from the program and their parents are called to pick them up. They also face suspension from activities and removal from board positions.

Tozer said a second offense results in permanent removal from BBYO. The consequences are no surprise to the teens and, Tozer said, if discipline is required parents are notified via the original phone call which is followed up by a letter.

Williams said USY luckily hasn’t faced many problems with teens abusing alcohol. In 12 years she’s only had to send a teen home from an event twice. That happens at parents’ expense.

Williams said most USYers respect the no drinking policy.

“I was in youth group growing up so I know it definitely happens behind closed doors and some people just get away with it,” she said. “But at USY conventions we are very diligent about trying to make sure that it doesn’t happen.”

The last time Beth Torah’s Rittmaster had to deal with a teen drinking at an event was more than 10 years ago. She attributes that to the code of conduct and the fact that members are reminded of that contract over and over again.

Rittmaster also believes NFTY programs are alcohol free because many of their programs are synagogue based.

“It brings a certain amount of respect for a program when rabbis are there,” Rittmaster said. “We also have very strong adult participation and nothing happens without an adult present.”

The timing of USY programs, according to Williams, is another reason why she sees few problems.

“We do our programs in the middle of the week,” Williams said. “With a dance you tend to associate more problems with drinking than you do a Wednesday night when you sit around making social action packets.”

Programs are often presented to teens to dissuade them from inappropriate activities. Williams said that USY has presented programs at conventions that concentrate on “Jewishly-acceptable” behaviors. BBYO has done so as well.

This year BBYO hopes a representative from Beit Teshuvah, an organization that runs a 12-step program based on Jewish values, will present programs at the spring regional convention.

“They are really awesome to talk to the teens because they talk on their level,” Tozer said.

Teens seek peers to sign pledge

Jewish teenagers from the major International Jewish Youth Movements are taking on bullying and standing up for their lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer peers. In addition to publicly committing to end bullying and creating an inclusive environment in their own movements, the Coalition of Jewish Teen Leaders — the presidents of the International Jewish Youth Movements — has set a goal of getting 18,000 Jews to sign Keshet’s Jewish Community Pledge to Save Lives.” This goal has been echoed by the executive leadership of the movements and their staff.

“It is really exciting to see Jewish teen leadership take a strong stand against homophobia and to promote a vision of the Jewish community that fully embraces all forms of diversity. When Keshet began the Jewish Community Pledge campaign, we hoped that it would lead to exactly this type of action. As important as it is for Jewish adults to take a stand against bullying and harassment, the most important voice for Jewish youth to hear is that of other youth. I know that there are GLBTQ teens in each of these youth groups as well as unaffiliated youth who will see

To sign the pledge visit http://salsa.wiredforchange.com/o/1285/p/dia/action3/common/public/?action_KEY=2580

The Jewish Community Center is holding its annual Open House this Sunday, Jan. 9, from noon to 3 p.m.  The Fitness & Sports center, including the indoor pool, will be open free of charge and visitors will be able to learn about the variety of JCC programs. Chiefs fans will also be able to watch the playoff game on a big-screen TV.

JCC Executive Director Jacob Schreiber said the annual event is a great way to recruit new members.

“Try us out, work out, use the pool … everything is available that day for free!” Schreiber said.

He said the event is a great opportunity for the JCC to “showcase what we have to offer as a fitness center as well as our full community center experience.”

In addition to the fitness center, visitors will be able to learn about the JCC’s summer camp, which Schreiber said is being enhanced for the coming summer. Representatives will be available to give tours of the award-winning Child Development Center and its early childhood programs as well as show off the Lewis and Shirley White Theatre.

“This is a good time to showcase the Center, as others do around the country, because this is the time when people make resolutions to get back in to shape,” Schreiber noted.

The gym will be open for youth basketball, the Youth Fitness Zone will be open for children ages 6 to 14 and a racquetball tournament will be played. Individuals can also try out group exercise classes — including Zumba, BodyJAM, cycling, Boot Camp, BodyAttack, BodyVIBE, yoga, BodyFlow and BodyPump — will also be demonstrated.

There will be free refreshments, plus incentives will be offered to both members and non-members. Current members who bring a non-member to visit during the Open House will receive a free JCC coupon box, which includes tickets to a White Theatre performance, two free “Saturday Night Out,” program enrollments, two free yoga or Kinesis classes, and three free visits to the Youth Fitness Zone. They will also be entered to win a free LCD TV and other prizes.

Non-members who join the JCC. Jan. 9 only, will receive two months free, a JCC coupon book and hundreds of dollars in free services.

Women in the Jewish community will once again celebrate the new year of the trees with a Tu b’Shevat seder on Sunday, Jan. 23. (The holiday itself is Jan. 20) The event will be held at the Jewish Community Campus and it is being jointly sponsored by Jewish Federation Women’s Division Yad B’yad and Rosh Hodesh: It’s a Girl Thing! A Learning for Life Program.

This is the second time the two organizations have collaborated on this event. Beverly Jacobson, Women’s division director, said the reason the committee decided to do Tu b’Shevat again is because it was “so well attended and enjoyed by so many women and young girls the last time.”
In fact almost 200 girls and women attended the first seder in 2009.

“This year we are hoping to achieve the same level of satisfaction,” Jacobson said. “The different speakers achieve a different focus.”
The span of women through the ages is “one of the coolest things” about this seder, according to Samantha Feinberg, the Learning for Life associate who is helping plan the event.

“Last time we saw girls as young as 12 and, I believe, there were women in their 80s there as well,” Feinberg said.

Karen Gerson, CAJE’s director of Informal Education, said another great thing about the event was that “it was intergenerational by more than just two generations.”

Like last time, activities are being created to help the generations interact.

“Some of the activities are created for the younger age group to collaborate with the older age group. Some of the activities give the older age group the opportunity to share their experiences and traditions with the younger generation,” Gerson said.

Again, like last time, Feinberg said the committee will take care in seating people so that there will be a nice mix of women at the tables.

“People were comfortably seated with people they already knew and there was an opportunity to meet new people as well,” Feinberg said.

Feinberg, who works with girls in the Rosh Hodesh program, is looking forward to the event, noting that it’s a nice way to get girls and their mothers together.

But the event also lets the girls gain insight to the larger community of Jewish women.

“In Rosh Hodesh there’s ritual and camaraderie and it’s nice to see that the learning doesn’t stop when you’re out of school. It’s good for them to see that women of all ages can come together and celebrate being women and celebrate Judaism for the rest of their lives,” Feinberg said.

The seder itself

Feinberg explained that a Tu b’Shevat seder is like a Passover seder in many ways, including the fact that there’s order to the ceremony.
“But there’s also sharing and the chance for individual expression of the rituals,” she said.

Just like at Passover, there are four glasses of wine drunk during the seder. At the Tu b’Shevat seder, however, the color of the wine in each glass is varied. The cups of wine symbolize the various seasons.

It is also popular to commemorate Tu b’Shevat by eating foods that can be found in Israel — such as olives, figs, grapes, honey, carob fruit and pomegranates. Some of these foods are mentioned in Deuteronomy 8:8, which describes Israel as “a land with wheat and barley, vines and fig trees, pomegranates, olive oil and honey.” In addition to the holiday fare, participants at this seder will also be treated to an assortment of sweets.
The theme of this seder is “Nourish the World Nourish Ourselves.”

“In keeping with the ‘new year of the trees theme,’ ” Feinberg said, “the seder will focus on the many ways we nourish the environment, the community and ourselves.”

Jacobson points out that once again they are aiming toward a “green seder, with eating utensils that decompose and the emphasis on growing plants.”

Along those lines organizers are also asking participants to help others by bringing apples, oranges, pears or dried fruit to the seder. The produce will be donated to Yachad: The Kosher Food Pantry. There will also be an opportunity to purchase trees to be planted in Israel at the event.

A hagaddah has been written for the service, and all the speakers and activities are new this year. Community educator Edna Levy will facilitate the seder. Others participating in the seder activities include Lilach Nissim, the Federation’s Israeli shaliach, who will present a d’var Torah; Gayla Brockman, executive director of the Menorah Legacy Foundation; Jane Sosland; Anne Jacobs and Judy Jacks Berman.

The event will last about two hours. Reservations will be accepted through Jan. 18. For more information about costs or to make a reservation, contact Nicole at (913) 327-8111 or visit www.jewishkansascity.com. A discount reservation is available for girls age 12 through college age and for women 70-plus.

Neither Karen Loggia nor her husband, David Spizman, are from Kansas City. Loggia grew up in a rural suburb of Washington, D.C. Spizman is from Omaha. So it wasn’t family that enticed them to move back to this area. It was friends, schools and, perhaps more than anything, the Jewish community. But that’s getting ahead of the story.

Loggia’s circuitous route to Kansas City began in Darnestown, Maryland, where she was raised Jewish with a tree at Christmas and a ham on Easter in deference to her father, who grew up Catholic. “I never questioned it till I was much older,” says Loggia, whose formal religious training ended at her Bat Mitzvah.

In high school, she belonged to a BBG youth group and attended Hillel a few times at Brown University. “But Judaism,” she says, “was not a central part of my life then.” Nor was it when she was employed in New York City as a benefits consultant in the late 1990s, nor in graduate school at Dartmouth College in New Hampshire, nor afterwards in Raleigh-Durham, where she worked in the marketing department at John Deere.

What Loggia remembers most fondly about those places is proximity to skiing and the beach. Still, despite the Midwest’s general lack of these amenities, Loggia approached her transfer to the Kansas City area in 2004 as another great adventure, and was pleasantly struck by the welcoming Jewish community she found here.

Kansas City No-Brainer

“Within days of telling people I was moving to Kansas City,” she said, “they told me about people they knew here. I reached out to them and they reached out to me.”

Loggia’s introduction to the Jewish Federation of Greater Kansas City came from friends of Ginzy Schaefer, the aunt of a graduate school friend, who suggested that Loggia participate in Women’s Division’s B’not Kehilla young leadership program. “I met a lot of fantastic women,” says Loggia, “and got to know Women’s Division Director Bev Jacobson, who asked me to help plan some programs.” 

Loggia also met her future husband through those connections on a blind date in 2005. “Some friends were going to Bagels and Basketball at KU, where I met a new couple, who introduced me to David.”

The next year, Loggia found her dream job as brand manager at Whirlpool in Benton Harbor, Michigan. Spizman moved to Benton Harbor and telecommuted to Kansas City after the couple married in September 2007. “It was fun living a half mile from Lake Michigan and getting to know Chicago,” said Loggia, “but it wasn’t sustainable. We did a quick evaluation and returning to Kansas City before the birth of our child was really a no-brainer.”

Every Stage of Life

After their son, Shaefer, was born here in February 2009, Loggia reconnected with the Federation, and served that year as co-chair of the Women’s Division’s annual Note-a-Thon. This year, she joined the Federation’s Marketing Advisory Council and accepted a two-year appointment as Super Sunday co-chair. “I’m really excited to be part of Super Sunday,” she says. “It will be get-down-to-business day, making calls and sending out thank yous, but also a lot of fun.” 

Federations across the country are moving to one unified logo, so Loggia and her co-chair, Steve Greenberg, orchestrated a community-wide T-shirt contest, featuring Jewish Federation’s new look. The winning design will be worn by hundreds of Super Sunday volunteers on January 30. In addition to the new T-shirt contest, they’re launching The Tzedakah Project on Super Sunday – a family-friendly scavenger hunt for 5 to 8-year olds and their families.

“What I love about the Federation,” she says, “is that while it has broad-reaching goals, whatever your stage of life you can find something it offers that resonates with your passion.”  

Loggia had a major volunteer role as social media manager for the Balloon Festival, held in September for the first time in Kansas City. But staying involved in the Jewish community, for her, is a given.  “Hopefully, we’ll live out our lives here,” she says. “I want to make sure my son grows up in a household rich with Jewish traditions. Volunteering in the Jewish community gives me more information and more confidence that this goal will happen.”

• Born in Washington, D.C., 1972

• Quince Orchard High School, Gaithersburg, Md.

• B.A., mathematical economics, Brown University, Providence, RI; MBA, Dartmouth  College, Hanover, NH
 
• Lives in Leawood, Kan.

• Married to David Spizman

• Synagogue Affiliation — Congregation Beth Torah

• Now Reading “Good Night Moon,” by Clement Hurd, and “The Awakening,” by Kate Chopin

• Favorite Jewish Food — Matzo ball soup

• Trips to Israel — None

• Children — Shaefer, 2

The board of directors of The New Reform Temple has decided not to renew Rabbi Jacques Cukierkorn’s contract, which expires at the end of May 2012.

“This decision was the culmination of a long and thorough process which resulted in a vote that was supported by an overwhelming majority of the board,” said Thomas C. Barnett, board president. The congregation has 285-member units.

“The rabbi has served our congregation for over 10 years, and we are all grateful for the progress the congregation has enjoyed during his leadership,” he continued. “Please be assured that this decision was a difficult one for all concerned.”

Rabbi Cukierkorn informed some members of the congregation about the board’s decision last week. In an e-mail, he stated that he was “sorry and saddened” to inform them of the board’s decision not to renew his contract.

“My family and I love the congregation and the Kansas City Jewish community. We have lived here for 10 years and I expected to be the rabbi of the New Reform Temple until my retirement, many years from now. I am committed to continue fulfilling my rabbinical duties for the remainder of my term,” he said.

“It has been an honor and a joy to have been part of your lives and have you be part of ours for the past 10 years,” said the 43-year-old rabbi who was ordained by the Reform movement in 1994. He joined the congregation in 2000.

Rabbi Cukierkorn reports that during his tenure the congregation’s membership doubled in size “and has become far more active and involved in the Kansas City Jewish community.”

Since he’s been here, Rabbi Cukierkorn has authored two books, “Accessible Judaism: A Concise Guide,” which is available in English, Spanish and Portuguese, and “They Were Just People: Stories of Rescue in Poland During the Holocaust,” that he co-authored with Bill Tammeus. He has also written numerous articles for major Jewish magazines and newspapers all over the country and been featured in a documentary about the conversions he oversees in Latin America.

Rabbi Cukierkorn currently serves as vice president of the Society for Classical Reform Judaism and has served as president of the Rabbinical Association of Greater Kansas City.

The congregation has not yet completed plans to begin the search for a new rabbi.

Congregation Beth Torah has begun searching for a new rabbi educator. The person hired will replace Rabbi Vered Harris, the congregation’s education rabbi, when her contract expires at the end of June 2012. She informed the congregation this summer that she planned to seek a new position.

Rabbi Harris joined the Reform congregation, which now has 650-plus member units, in 2000 following her ordination from the Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion in Cincinnati that same year. She also earned a Master of Arts degree in Jewish education in 1998 from the Rhea Hirsch School of Education, and was awarded the title of Reform Jewish Educator in 2002. Rabbi Harris and her husband, Benjamin, are the parents of three children.

John Spector, the congregation’s president, said this is a natural transition in a rabbi’s career path and that Rabbi Harris told the board that this is a good time for her family to make such a change. While he’s happy for Rabbi Harris, he said Beth Torah is going to miss her.

“We were very lucky to have her for 10 years. Our religious school and our adult education programming are top quality in large part because of her effective leadership,” Spector said. “We clearly understand why she is leaving and we wish her the best of luck.”

The job description, which has been posted on the Central Conference of American Rabbi’s website as well as Beth Torah’s (www.beth-torah.org) is detailed. In part, the congregation is seeking an innovative rabbi educator “who will facilitate lifelong learning among congregants, oversee various congregational programs, participate in outreach efforts and serve as rabbi to the congregation.”

Spector said before the congregation compiled the job description, it first met with Rabbi Harris and several focus groups.

“We worked with Rabbi Harris to determine what her role is now and how it has grown since she came here,” Spector said. “A variety of congregants from various demographic groups also provided their feedback, which was factored into the job description.”

The search committee will be led by Michelle Cole and it will include congregants from a variety of different age groups and family responsibilities such as parents with young children, seniors and young adults.