Long journey leads to rabbinate for KC native
Ten years ago Steve Burnstein’s son died when he was just six months old of a genetic disorder. The “crisis of faith” he suffered during that time led him on a course of study that included, among other things, liturgy (prayer). It also led him to rabbinical school, where he was ordained by the Reconstructionist Rabbinical College in Philadelphia June 12.
When he started studying, it was simply to study. The 46-year-old Kansas City native, the son of David and Rosalyn Burnstein, decided to become a rabbi when a friend encouraged him to pursue ordination.
He was drawn to the Reconstructionist movement through its prayer book.
“I fell in love with their approach to prayer and liturgy. When I met the people at the college, I realized it was the type of community that would be a pleasure to learn with and study with,” Rabbi Burnstein said.
He doesn’t expect any drastic changes in his life now that he’s a rabbi. He will continue to serve as the director of IsraelExperts’ Center for Israel and Diaspora Education. IsraelExperts is an Israel education and travel organization that works with major organizations around the world, including Birthright Israel, in the field of Israel-Diaspora relations and Israel education.
Rabbi Burnstein said his rabbinical degree will make a difference to some he works with.
“In the North American Jewish community there is a certain amount of respect for the title, although that certainly wasn’t the goal of getting it. But in my work it’s certainly the reality,” he said.
“The journey wasn’t about the title or the degree, it was about the learning.”
It took him nine and a half years to finish his journey, which Rabbi Burnstein jokes is a record for the RRC. He decided to apply to rabbinic school at the same time he and his wife Varda began the process of adopting their son Micah, who is now 10. With the timing of the adoption, he couldn’t begin school at the start of the academic year. Instead the three Burnsteins spent the spring semester in Philadelphia.
“Then we went back to Israel for what was just supposed to be the summer. While we were there the social worker we had worked with for Micah’s adoption called us and said she had another baby for us if we were interested. That process took a year,” he said. Daughter Gabi is now almost 9. Both children are of Ethiopian descent.
When he decided to continue his studies they were interrupted once again, this time with his own health issues. He had a heart attack and quadruple bypass surgery.
He continued to take classes “here and there,” and then the opportunity at IsraelExperts presented itself.
“It is my dream job. I get to share my passion for Israel with people and I get to work in Israel-Diaspora relations and try to bring our communities closer together and build bridges and somebody pays me to do it,” he said.
Finally, it got to the point that to finish his degree he had to come to Philadelphia for that final semester.
“Starting rabbinic school was my crazy idea. I really would not have finished it without Varda pushing me,” he noted. “She’s an absolute saint.”
Rabbi Burnstein grew up in the Conservative movement as a member of Congregation Beth Shalom. He was very active in USY, serving as the local president as well as taking an active regional role in the youth organization. He earned both undergraduate and graduate degrees at the Jewish Theological Seminary.
“One of the most important things I learned at JTS was that philosophically, ideologically and theologically, the Conservative movement is not for me. I grew up in the movement not really understanding with any depth the meaning of the approach to Judaism,” he said.
With three degrees in tow, he began working at Congregation Beth Torah as its religious school director. He stayed six years, and while he was there he earned the Reform Jewish Educator certification.
When he left Beth Torah he worked in corporate America for a few years developing seminars.
“I learned a little bit about a lot of things, but I realized it wasn’t what I wanted to do with my life. But I wasn’t sure how I wanted to get back involved in the Jewish world,” Rabbi Burnstein said.
So he took a leave of absence from his job, took a group of kids to Israel, and stayed on his own for two months.
“While I was there in 1995, I got involved with Pinat Shorashim and Kibbutz Gezer. Then I went home, closed up shop and a little over a year later made aliyah in 1997,” he said.
He met his Varda, who is originally from the Philadelphia area and made aliyah right after high school, on the baseball field at Gezer.
“She comes from a very connected Zionist family. Her dad was a crew member on the Exodus,” he said.
The Burnsteins live at Kibbutz Gezer and he has never regretted his decision to move to Israel.
“My mother-in-law says you make aliyah every day, which is very true. There’s this love-hate relationship. I love where I live. I love being in the center of the Jewish world. Living in America, when I would get upset with politics or anything else I would say ‘this is horrible.’ In Israel, you say ‘why do I live here? How can I live in a place like this?’ But we’re all trying to make a difference and make it a better place.”
In today’s fast-paced business world, it’s unusual for a person to spend his whole career working for the same company. Frank Friedman has done that and more, rising to the very top management levels of a well-known national accounting firm while keeping his home base here Kansas City.
ANOTHER RABBI ON THE MOVE — Rabbi Craig Lewis, a Kansas City native (Shawnee Mission East ‘93 and KU ‘96), is returning to the Midwest to assume the pulpit of Congregation B’nai Jeshurun (the South Street Temple) in Lincoln, Neb. Having received ordination from the Hebrew Union College Cincinnati campus in 2008, Rabbi Lewis spent the last three years serving as assistant rabbi at Congregation Shir Ha-Ma’alot in Irvine, Calif. During his tenure there he performed a variety of rabbinic functions, including worship, Torah study and life cycle events. He also taught in the religious school and worked closely with the youth groups, the brotherhood and the congregation’s seniors’ group. Upon their arrival in Lincoln, Craig’s wife Jennifer will be the art studio program manager for Resources for Human Development, a non-profit agency that serves disabled adults. Their 3-year-old son Eden is excited to explore his new pre-school and to grow up closer to his saba (grandfather), aunts, uncles, and cousins in Kansas. Craig is the son of Stuart and Hilary (z”l) Lewis of Prairie Village.
For the second year in a row, Congregation Beth Israel Abraham & Voliner has played host to a group of interns from Yeshiva University. Known as the Kansas City Summer Fellowship, it is touted to other students at Yeshiva U as a program where the men and women “will become a part of the Kansas City BIAV Jewish community for a month, spending their days working at a variety of exciting internships, and dedicating their nights to energizing and learning Torah with the Jewish community.”
In the world of Jewish music, Matisyahu is a real rock star. The Grammy-nominated reggae artist will be in Kansas City again Thursday, July 7, when he and his band the Dub Trio, perform at Crossroads KC @ Grinders along with The Wailers.
There are a variety of options to order kosher meat online. One of the newest, The Kosher Express, has a local connection. The company ships its glatt kosher meat from a warehouse in Independence, Mo.
Now officially a senior in high school, Mollie Chesis could probably teach classes on organizational skills. In order to do everything this Blue Valley High School student does, she must stay organized and on schedule.
UP, UP AND AWAY — Jeanne Mallin recently celebrated her 86th birthday. She’s been an active and beloved member of Congregation Ohev Sholom for more than 35 years according to Rabbi Scott White, and she has many friends among the members. One of those, Bob Magoon, wanted to do something special to help her celebrate this birthday. He said Mallin had told him she always wanted to take a hot air balloon ride so she could feel the wind in her face. So he arranged to take her on her dream ride on June 15. As they sailed the big blue sky they dropped manna, or in this case matzah, from heaven. It was a once-in-a-lifetime experience for both of them!
SINGING FOR CHARITY — The Country Chicks, made up of five Glaser sisters and a neighbor friend, have entered the Town Center Plaza SING 2011 Contest. The winning group will take off with a Grand Prize Package of $20,000 for their favorite charity, $5,000 in Developers Diversified Realty MasterCard Gift Cards and the once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to record a song with Emmy-award-winning singer/songwriter Kevin Briody. Mom Lori Glaser said the girls immediately wanted to enter the contest in the hopes of winning the Abby’s Run for the Heart — an event initiated in 2003 to raise money for pediatric heart diseases. The Glaser’s oldest daughter, Abby, died in 2001 from a disease called viral myocarditis, a virus that quickly infected her body and attacked her heart causing her sudden death. To date, fundraising efforts have raised more than $600,000. While the group may sing a little out of tune, they are garnering lots of votes. Voting continues through July 15 and you can vote for them at www.towncenterplaza.2011sing.com. You’ll have to register and look for The Country Chicks and hit play.
Kelly Manning, owner of the new suburban hot spot Tavern in the Village, is a local in nearly every meaningful sense of the word. (Located at 3901 Prairie Lane, Prairie Village, KS 66208, (913) 529-2229) He grew up within a couple miles of the Prairie Village restaurant he opened several months ago, attended Pembroke Hill High School, and garnered a feel for the restaurant business under the wings of the Kansas City-rooted PB & J folks. Having worked his way up the ladder of the Morton’s Steakhouse chain for 14 years, he came home to demonstrate the fruits of his years of restaurant labor to his old neighborhood. There is something gratifying to Midwesterners — Kansas Citians, particularly — when one of their own returns home to make a favorable mark on his community of origin. And Manning has done just that.
Some food folks operate with a mental line-up of certain, bellwether dishes that can be sampled — for comparative purposes — from restaurant-to restaurant. One such dish, for me, is a basic, roasted chicken (on the bone) — the quality of which is wholly rooted in effective seasoning and cooking technique. Tavern’s ½ Rotisserie Chicken ($13) came with the skin crispy on the outside, and the chicken moist and flavorful on the inside. The half bird was served atop decent mashed potatoes and al dente lemon pepper green beans.