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When it’s fashion week in New York, it’s also fashion week at Her Majesty’s Closet, a couture consignment shop for women owned and operated by Barb Bloch.

Fashion Week kicks off Feb. 9 in both places. Her Majesty’s Closet will celebrate that night with a fashion show beginning at 6 p.m. featuring spring clothing and accessories. It will take place in the brand new space the store moved into last month, directly next door to its original shop on the south side of 83rd Street in Corinth Square near First Watch.

Bloch explained the Prairie Village shop was inspired by pop-up designer shops and boutiques popular on both coasts. Her Majesty’s Closet specializes in designer labels. More than 40 famous names can be found there including Bill Blass, Geoffrey Beene, Nina Ricci, Paulene Triggere, Yves Saint Laurent, Chanel, Prada, Minolo Blahnik, Gucci and Louboutin.

“You will only find designer labels here and it’s all real,” Bloch said. “You will find all the high-end brands and we have a lot of vintage also. We’ve got anywhere from the ‘40s to current styles. We also stock some vintage jewelry and handbags.”

Bloch said Her Majesty’s Closet is very well known for its shoes, furs, handbags and cocktail wear, all of which are “in excellent condition.” The store is also known for its large St. John knits department. The store carries a variety of sizes as well as price ranges.

“I’ve got Chanel jackets that would cost $4,000 or $5,000 new and we have them for $950. It’s not cheap, but for someone who wants Chanel and wants the look, it’s affordable because it’s a fraction of the regular price,” Bloch said.

The store gets its merchandise from estates as well as individuals.
“Often these women buy something and are on the fashion cycle so once they wear it they don’t want to wear it again,” Bloch said.

Her Majesty’s Closet is not the first store of its kind in the area. But Bloch believes what sets this store apart from others is that others don’t carry the quantity of couture available at Her Majesty’s Closet.

“A lot of consignment stores will tell you they have a particular label just to lure you in the store. Then they don’t have it or they just have one piece,” she explained. “We have lots of Oscar de la Renta, lots of Chanel, lots of Armani Black Label, lots of Geoffrey Beene …,” she continued.

Who shops at Her Majesty’s Closet? Bloch said they are people who appreciate couture as well as quality fabrics, construction and design. Customers come in all sizes and ages, from young women to senior citizens.

“Some appreciate fashion but can’t afford these pieces new,” she said. “We also have people who love vintage and who buy into the recycling.”

While she’s only owned Her Majesty’s Closet for two and a half years, Bloch said she grew up in the garment industry. Her family manufactured ladies coats and suits. Professionally she worked as a recruiter for the Carlisle Collection, a clothing line sold by personal consultants, where she learned all about wardrobe building.

Bloch has also served two terms as regional director for the Fashion Group here in Kansas City. In addition she collaborated with Sybil Kahn on a book about the history of the garment industry.

Next week’s fashion show — which got its start when the store first opened as a way to attract customers — will feature 11 models, all customers, showing almost 80 different outfits.

“Every outfit, shoes, jewelry, handbag, coat … worn on that runway is put together with pieces that have come in on consignment and are new in the store for spring,” Bloch explained.

The show is free; reservations are not required but are recommended. The evening also features music, wine and appetizers. The store will be open for shopping as well.

“It’s really a fun, fun evening,” she said. “It’s grown from the 75 people who attended the first show to more than 100 that came in the fall. I’m hoping for about 150 people this time, and it will be recorded and placed on the website,” Bloch said.

Her Majesty’s website has grown along with the actual store. Now customers can purchase clothes directly from the website.

Bloch loves the consignment couture concept and often wears clothes from the store. So do her employees.

“Almost everybody who works here was a customer before they started working here,” she said. “I think we are a very warm and friendly environment and we’re not high pressure. I think we give our customers a great shopping experience.”

Her Majesty’s Closet

The couture consignment shop is located at 4107 W. 83rd St., Prairie Village, Kan. Store hours are Monday through Friday: 10 a.m. to 5 p.m.; Saturday and Sunday: 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. For more information call 913-341-7774 or visit www. hermajestysclosetldt.com.

The Jewish Federation of Greater Kansas City’s Israel shlichah (emissary) has returned to Israel. Lilach Nissim, who arrived here in October of 2010, is experiencing health problems that prompted her decision to return to Israel. There she will continue to seek further medical treatment while having the support of her family nearby. A Jewish Federation emissary typically stays in the community for two years.

Nissim is a native of Jerusalem and was the Jewish Federation’s fourth emissary. She came here from missile-torn Sderot, where she worked as a youth coordinator and manager of a youth center for children at risk. Nissim was responsible for spreading the word about Israel in both the Jewish and general communities. She organized such events as Yom HaZikaron (Israel’s memorial day), Yom HaAtzmaut (Israel Independence Day) and Israeli movie nights.

Nissim also wrote a monthly column for The Chronicle.

“Lilach Nissim brought her special brand of Israel and Zionist education to every corner of the community from preschools to adult education classes. She was passionate about her work. We have received a number of emails in response to her early departure, which praised her work and extended wishes for a speedy recovery,” said Alan Edelman, Jewish Federation’s associate executive director.

Edelman said the Jewish Federation plans to continue the emissary program in the future. He will begin the process of searching for a new emissary within the next few months and expects one to be on board by September of this year.

More than 20 years ago, Barry Shrage, president of Boston’s CJP (Combined Jewish Philanthropies — its Jewish federation) was one of the first to recognize the benefits of sending high school graduates and young adults to Israel. Today that program — Taglit-Birthright — has sent more than 10,000 young Boston area Jews on first-time free visits to the Jewish homeland. Upon their return, CJP’s Campus and Post-Campus Initiatives have become national models that teach students to become lifelong advocates for Israel.

Shrage has made a difference in Boston — as has Todd Stettner, director of the Jewish Federation of Greater Kansas City since 1999. So it made “perfect sense,” said Margie Robinow, chairman of the 2012 Purim Gala, “to ask Barry to be the featured speaker at this year’s event when Todd will be presented with the annual Mordechai Award.”

“I grew up in Newton, Massachusetts, at the same synagogue as Barry and his family,” explained Rabbi Dani Rockoff, spiritual leader of Congregation Beth Israel Abraham & Voliner, which has sponsored Purim Gala since 1998.

“Occasionally he would speak to the congregation and I remember always being impressed and inspired by his thoughtful words and the passion with which he delivered them,” Rabbi Rockoff added. “I was pleased that Todd, our honoree, suggested Barry as a guest speaker at BIAV’s Purim Gala and I am thrilled that he is coming. It should be a very memorable evening!”

Purim Gala, slated for Sunday, Feb. 12, at Oakwood Country Club, is an annual fundraiser for Congregation BIAV, the area’s only modern Orthodox synagogue. The evening will begin with a silent auction and cocktail reception at 5 p.m., followed by a seated dinner at 6 p.m. The Lev Simcha Orchestra, headed by Rabbi Binyamin Davis, will be playing throughout the evening, as guests have an opportunity to bid on one-of-a-kind items of jewelry and Judaica, as well as sports tickets and gym memberships.

“I am delighted to have Barry come to Kansas to honor Todd,” added Robinow, “as I have been inspired by his visionary efforts in connecting community, promoting education and keeping focus on what is most important for the continuity of the Jewish people.”

Shrage has been instrumental in the creation of several cutting edge programs in Boston, designed to engage the next generation in meaningful Jewish life, and create a welcoming, inclusive Jewish community. Projects include Me’ah, an intensive Jewish adult education curriculum; and Ikkarim, a Jewish learning program for parents of young children. Pioneered in Boston, both programs are now being replicated nationwide.

Lisa Bernard, this year’s Jewish Federation Women’s Campaign co-chair, and co-chair of Purim Gala 2011, added that “It’s so important to have role models like Todd and Barry who reach out to the Jewish community, regardless of synagogue affiliation. Kansas City succeeds because everyone — from the unaffiliated to the most ardent synagogue supporter — is welcomed, included and nurtured.”

Stettner is a strong supporter of Israel. He has been involved with this community’s Partnership with Kibbutz Gezer-Ramle since its inception. Last year he became involved with a new program, Elem-Derech, aimed at developing innovative ways to effectively treat and rehabilitate disaffected, at-risk Israeli youth.

Like Stettner, Shrage also is one of Israel’s most passionate and effective advocates in Boston. More than 20 years ago, he helped to establish the Boston-Haifa Connection, a sister city relationship that has resulted in mutually beneficial social programs. He and his wife Ellie live in Newton, Mass., where they raised their two children. They also have two grandchildren.

Tickets are still available to Purim Gala 2012. For more information, call Barry Rubin at Congregation BIAV at 913-341-2444 or email him at . The invitation and forms to place ads and congratulatory greetings for the Tribute Journal are also available online at: www.BIAV.org/purimgala.

After spending the past 17 years of her career as an advocate for people living with serious health issues, Amy Goldstein recently was selected as a Sunflower Foundation Advocacy Fellow. She is one of 15 health care professionals chosen from across the state of Kansas to participate in the 2012 Fellowship program.

Goldstein is the senior director of programs, services and advocacy for the Mid America Chapter of the National MS Society. It serves 253 counties in Kansas, Western Missouri, Nebraska and Pottawattamie County in Iowa. The Mid America Chapter offers programs and services to more 11,000 individuals living with MS and annually raises more than $3.5 million to create a world free of MS.

Goldstein understands the importance of advocacy initiatives and working for people in need.

“I think advocacy is so important,” she said, “in order to allow people to realize their own potential.”

She sees the fellowship as an opportunity to improve her leadership skills in advocacy work. The foundation wants the same result.

“The Sunflower Foundation: Health Care for Kansans, based in Topeka, was created in August 2000 as part of the $75 million settlement between Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Kansas, the state attorney general and state insurance commissioner,” as stated on its website, www.SunflowerFoundation.org.

As part of the foundation’s commitment to improve the health of all Kansans, the fellowship program was started to help “leaders in health-related nonprofit organizations develop the understanding, experience and expertise they need to become powerful voices for the Kansans they serve,” according to the website.

“We look for people who have clear professionalism in their field and a depth of knowledge,” said Doug Farmer, the foundation’s vice president for policy. “We want diversity in each class by geography, gender, ethnicity, issues and topic.”
Goldstein fits this profile perfectly.

“I want to improve the lives of people with MS,” she said. “I want to provide an opportunity for them to have a voice, and teach them to be self advocates, as well as advocate for them.”
She believes being a Sunflower Foundation Fellow will help her to meet this goal.

With a master’s degree in social work from the University of Kansas, Goldstein has advocated for people living with a variety of health issues. Although she began her career as a clinical social worker, she soon moved into working in both administration and community outreach. It was during her eight years at the American Cancer Society that she helped open and became the first director of the Kansas City Hope Lodge, which provides free lodging for people undergoing cancer treatments.

“Amy exhibits passion about her issue, MS; and her background in issue advocacy is strong,” Farmer added. “We were excited about how excited she was about both her field and about learning more.”

Goldstein was nominated to be one of this year’s fellows by someone who participated in last year’s fellowship program. Farmer said that fellows either can be nominated by others or self nominated.

As a fellow, Goldstein must attend six, three-day education sessions, during a 12 month period. During these seminars, they attend lectures given by experts from around the country, as well as role play. For example, Goldstein said, at the first session in October they had media training where they heard lectures and then practiced talking in front of cameras.

One session is held in Washington, D.C., where the fellows have the opportunity to put their advocacy training to work. “We facilitate a relationship between fellows and members of congress,” Farmer said. “We want them to know how to bring up an issue, who to talk to and what to ask.”

Farmer said that the Sunflower Foundation also hopes to foster relationships among the growing number of fellows. “We try to help them work together,” he said. “We plan to institute a series of meetings around the state to get fellows together to talk about important current health issues, and how the foundation can facilitate better health for all Kansans.”

Besides her full-time job and her new commitment as a Sunflower Fellow, Goldstein is also the married mother of two. She and her husband, Barry Dicker, are members of Kehilath Israel Synagogue, where they married eight years ago. As a lifelong member of K.I., she currently serves as a vice president of its board of directors. Their older son, Gabe, is in kindergarten at the Hyman Brand Hebrew Academy, while their younger son, Jacob, attends the Jewish Community Center’s CDC.

This full-time advocate and mother is doing what she loves best.

“I think I always have been an advocate,” she said. “It is fun to do this for work and personally.”

JEWS AT THE SUPER BOWL — I don’t know for sure if any of the New York Giants or the New England Patriots are Jewish, but I do know one Jewish Kansas Citian will be a starter in Super Bowl XLVI. Avi Sonnenschein, who is in his first year of studies at Indiana University, will be playing alto saxophone with the IU marching band, “The Marching Hundred” to open Super Bowl XLVI. The band was selected from among several Indiana colleges and universities for this opportunity. Avi will be just left of the 45 yard line in the opening musical set, “Rock in the USA.” Following his graduation from Blue Valley North High School in 2010, Avi spent a gap year in Israel. He is the son of Sheila and Ken Sonnenschein and a former Chronicle Salute to Youth honoree.

JEWS PERFORMING WITH THE SYMPHONY — Several Jewish musicians will come to Kansas City to perform with Kansas City Symphony over the next year. The first is pianist Yefim Bronfman, the son of Holocaust survivors who was born in Tashkent in the former Soviet Union and immigrated to Israel when he was 14. He will be here Friday and Saturday, March 30 and 31, and Sunday, April 1. At that time the Symphony, under the direction of Michael Stern, will present the second of its world premieres this season with Daniel Kellogg’s new work celebrating our City of Fountains, and Mozart’s glorious final symphony. Bronfman returns for a work that has won him great acclaim, Bartók’s Piano Concerto No. 2. Critics have described Bronfman’s playing as “exquisite” and described “a finely spun whir of notes that verged on the unbelievable” (Los Angeles Times). Sponsors include the Sosland Foundation. For ticket information call 816-471-0400 or visit www.kcsymphony.org.

ANOTHER WIN FOR SPIN! — SPIN! Neapolitan Pizza’s margherita pizza was crowned one of the nation’s best dishes of the year by Restaurant Business magazine. A panel of food experts from around the country selected the top dishes of the year from restaurants throughout the U.S. “When folks in the restaurant business are asked to name their favorite dishes, it’s not easy to narrow down the choices,” notes the magazine in its article announcing the 2011 Clean Plate Award winners. Co-owner Gail Lozoff said SPIN! is “truly honored to have our pizza included among the nation’s best restaurant dishes.” Besides being award-winning, the margherita pizza is also waistline friendly at just 189 calories in a slice taken from a full-size pizza. A different panel of respected food experts at TheDailyMeal.com, one of the most heavily visited “foodie” websites in the country, recently named SPIN! one of the “Rest of the 101 Best Restaurants” in the nation. In addition, SPIN!’s architecture won Best of Show at the Mid America Design Awards.

GREAT JEWISH BOOKS — Community Editor Marcia Montgomery contributes this mini review about “One Hundred Great Jewish Books” by Rabbi Lawrence A. Hoffman:
This is a fantastic book that will give any reader many hours of reading pleasure. What a daunting task to come up with only 100 great Jewish books! Rabbi Hoffman suggests books in several categories: biography, spirituality, theology, poetry, fiction, history and political theory. Readers will love diving into the book to see just who Rabbi Hoffman’s choices are in order to find books you’ve already read, ones that may have escaped your attention or ones that you always intended to read but never got around to. Rabbi Hoffman gives a brief synopsis of each pick and his reasons for that particular selection. In the realm of fiction, he includes Isaac Bashevis Singer, Philip Roth, Chaim Potok and Bernard Malamud. But one wonders where are Saul Bellow, Henry Roth, Michael Chabon, Jonathan Safron Foer? Perhaps Rabbi Hoffman will write a sequel! “One Hundred Great Jewish Books” is a paperback and is available at bookstores and online.

Google Todd Stettner and you won’t find much. Yes, you can find statements attributed to him as executive vice president and CEO of the Jewish Federation of Greater Kansas City. But you won’t find stories written about him. That’s because he does his job well, leading the way for others to take credit for his successes.

His leadership style is one reason Stettner is being honored at Congregation Beth Israel Abraham & Voliner’s 14th annual Purim Gala, Sunday, Feb. 12, at Oakwood Country Club. He will receive the Mordechai Award, which is presented to someone who epitomizes the devotion to the Jewish community or Israel as shown by Mordechai in the Scroll of Esther, which says that Mordechai “...sought the good of his people and was concerned for the welfare of all …”

Jewish Federation President Miriam Scharf can’t think of a more deserving recipient than Stettner.

“As the CEO of the Kansas City Jewish Federation, Todd has been instrumental in creating a collaborative, open and engaging environment in the Jewish community. He has earned the respect and admiration of lay leaders, staff and his colleagues around the country,” Scharf said.

Stettner’s friendly leadership style is easily noticed when you first enter his office. One can’t miss the candy jars on his conference table, put there as an open invitation for people to stop in for an informal chat.

“I started doing that when I became the COO of the East Bay Federation in Oakland. The lay people loved it. I thought it would be a good way to get my staff to come in my office because they don’t want to come in and see the boss. That way I could informally find out what’s going on,” he explained.

It worked and he continued the practice when he came here as Kansas City’s top Jewish Federation’s official in 1999.

“People come in with their children and their grandchildren,” he said.

The road to KC

A native of The Bronx, N.Y., Stettner, who now has more than 33 years of experience in the social service field under his belt, didn’t always know he was going to spend a lifetime in the field of Jewish communal service. But he’s always liked being involved in organizations in high school and college. He served as president of his high school chapter of the National Conference of Christians and Jews and among other things was on the Intra Fraternity Council while he was an undergrad at Marrietta College in Marietta, Ohio. College was where he first really discovered his Jewishness.

“In New York it’s easy to be a Jew. Even though Jews are still a minority … Jewish culture is so much a part of the culture of New York. Because of that I sought out my Judaism more and started taking religion courses,” he said.

His first taste of Jewish communal work came just after graduation in 1971. He worked as a temporary fundraising assistant at Federation of Jewish Philanthropies in New York.

They liked him and wanted to keep him full-time, but instead he chose to go to grad school at the Wurzweiler School of Social Work of Yeshiva University. He graduated with a master’s degree in social work, with an emphasis in the field of community organization, in 1974.

His first full-time job was at the Milwaukee Jewish Federation. During the two years he was there, he met his future wife, Shirley. They now have two grown sons. Jordan and his wife, Ali, live in Chicago. Youngest son Max lives and works in New York City.

Todd Stettner has worked either with Jewish federations or community centers his entire professional career. Besides Milwaukee and New York, he’s worked in the San Francisco Bay area, Tucson, Ariz., and Seattle.

While Stettner was in California, national federation officials decided it would be a good idea to train high-level executives to become CEOs. A management program was created and Stettner was invited to participate in the first two-year-program. Part of the program included an internship, which he served in the East Bay Federation in California. As had become a pattern, the leadership liked Stettner and asked him to stay on. This time he would become the first person in that size federation to hold the title of chief operating officer.

“They offered me the job ahead of schedule. I just really hit it off with them and I did that for five years,” Stettner said.

Ready to be CEO

After five years as COO of East Bay, Stettner was ready for his own federation. He interviewed here for the position being vacated by A. Robert Gast. Kansas City appeared to be a good fit for Stettner, and it’s been his home for almost 13 years now. That’s longer than any other place he’s ever been.

“They say some things are beshert (meant to be). ... The strategic plan had just been approved in 1998 and they were looking for someone to implement it. When I read it, a lot of the ideas were very similar to what we’d been doing in California,” he recalled. “I was interviewing at another community and they said we don’t want you to go to that other community. You’re our guy.”

Stettner likes being in Kansas City and is proud he was able to bring the strategic plan “from paper to reality.”

“You can get your arms around a community like this. You can feel that you are making an impact. In the big city … it was hard to make a difference. It was hard to really make change. It is much easier to make change in a community like Kansas City. The impact is much stronger. I like being at a place in my job where I could make an impact.

Stettner doesn’t use the term collaboration when he discusses the Jewish Federation’s accomplishments over the last several years. But he’s been a part of a lot of collaborative efforts that have made a big impact. One of those efforts is The Funders Council, which was created by Stan Bushman and the late John Uhlmann.

“It started as a very loose get together with the Jewish Community Foundation, the Jewish Heritage Foundation and Federation. I said to Merilyn (Berenbom, former Federation president) this is really an incredible thing that we should be doing on a more regular basis. So we started to meet quarterly and then as we got to know each other better, trust began to build and it has grown so now we meet almost monthly,” he said.

“It’s really unique in the entire federation system. There is really no other community that I am aware where the foundations and the federations work together like we do,” he said.

His collaborative manner also helped keep the Jewish Community Campus “whole” when the Lewis and Shirley White Theatre was being built.

“There was a lot of tumult that came with the building of the theater,” he said, explaining that some of the agencies strongly considered moving out of the Campus at that time. “This was when Pella Fingersh was president and we really worked very hard to keep the Campus whole and I think that’s been very important for the community.”

It would be remiss not to mention the Jewish Federation’s continued fundraising success under Stettner’s leadership. While it’s been hard for Jewish Federations nationally to raise more dollars due to the downward economy, Stettner said Kansas City has been able to grow the Annual Campaign as well as supplemental giving.

“Everything has shrunk a little during the recession. But over the years we’ve been involved in a number of emergency campaigns — the intifadas, the Israel emergency campaigns, the Lebanese war — all of which Kansas City has done a fabulous job raising funds,” he said.

Stettner is honored to be BIAV’s choice for this year’s Mordechai Award.

“Because we have BIAV, there are many people who come to this community who wouldn’t come otherwise. I think that adds to the richness of the fabric of the community,” Stettner said.

“We don’t have a very large Orthodox community in Kansas City. In some places the Orthodox community goes their own way and doesn’t really integrate with the rest of the community. That’s not the case here and to a large extent that’s been because of its leadership — both rabbinic and lay,” he continued. “I have been a participant in the Purim Gala for a while and sometimes they’ve come to me for suggestions as to who the honoree should be. So I was very flattered when they came to be and asked me to be the honoree. I think they are an important part of the community and I think they give a lot back to the community, far more than their numbers dictate.”

A pioneer is a person who is among the first to settle a region. The members of Zemach family are pioneers who live in Moshav Kadesh Barnea, a small village in Israel’s Negev Desert. They moved there 10 years ago from Rehovot.

The Zemachs — Chami and Oksana Zemach and their daughters Gali, 13, Tamar, 11, and Michal, 4 — are traveling around the world for a year to share what Chami called “the normal story about what people do and what people are like in Israel.”

They were in Kansas City for a few days the week of Jan. 16.

The Zemachs left Israel Aug. 1, 2011, and will return exactly one year later. Their oldest daughter, 22-year-old Yulia, stayed behind to continue her education. The younger children are being home schooled during this journey they call The Israeli Family Project. When it’s all said and done they will have visited 27 countries and four continents.

Kansas City was not originally on their agenda. When they arrived in the United States in November, coincidentally Israeli emissaries to the United States were meeting in New York. The Zemachs visited with the emissaries, who were able to connect them with Jewish community across the country. Lilach Nissim, the Jewish Federation of Greater Kansas City emissary, arranged for the Zemachs to stay at the home of Sharon and Peter Loftspring while they were here.

Sharon Loftspring said the Zemachs were delightful to have as houseguests.

“It was a really, really fun experience for us. I think the best part was talking to them casually at night after they come home.

They are interesting, interesting people,” Loftspring said.

Chami Zemach said they decided to take this trip because they’ve had a chance to visit with a variety of people who visit their desert village. This convinced them people wanted and needed to know more about Israel, not just the Israel that is shown on television.

“We know that people around the world really want to know about Israel. We want people to know that Israel is much more than the conflict,” he said.

They planned the trip for more than two years and believe they will tell their story to thousands of people before the journey is complete. While in Kansas City, they were featured on NBC Action News and KMBC-TV 9. Their activities included visits at the Hyman Brand Hebrew Academy, Congregation Beth Shalom, the Jewish Community Center Heritage Center with Rabbi Scott White and an informal dinner at the home of Sheila and Ken Sonnenschein.

Living in the desert

When the Zemachs moved to Kadesh Barnea, only about 30 families lived there. It has now grown to 55 families. Chami described the village as an agricultural area where people grow lots of fruits and vegetables.

“People are really flourishing there in the desert,” he said. “It’s very interesting to see how new areas are being developed and being created there.”

In Israel, the Zemachs own a factory called Desert Magic. It produces jams, sauces and chutneys made from fruits and vegetables grown nearby.

“We started this business in our home to see if it was something that could work. After a few months it started to grow and they built the factory,” said Chami, an Israeli native. Their products are sold in Israel and the United States.

The Zemachs are very involved in their community because they believe it is important to take an active role in building the Negev area.

“We really believe that the Negev and the desert is a big challenge for Israel. This is where the development of Israel should be. Israel should grow to this area because it is half of Israel and hardly populated at all. Just about 20 percent of Israelis live in the Negev,” Chami said.

Connecting with people

On the first leg of their trip in Europe, Oksana, who was born in Belarus and moved to Israel more than 20 years ago, said they met mostly non-Jewish people.

“Here we are in many Jewish communities, but we have also had programs in public schools and churches,” she said.

Her favorite way to talk to people is while cooking Israeli food together. She said while they cook, they talk about life.

“Food brings people together and Israeli food is very special. It comes from many different countries and is very interesting,” she said.

The food they plan and prepare for these dinners, Oksana said, is almost always foods Israelis eat every day, “nothing fancy or expensive.”

“Usually we have about two hours to do this and it’s kind of magic. We make a lot of food, about eight or nine dishes for 20 or 30 people,” she said.

Chami said this project has taken his family to places that tourists don’t usually find. So far he’s greatly enjoyed meeting the people, and has some interesting stories to tell.

“Israelis don’t know that that there are many people around the world that are very supportive to Israel,” he said.

One of his favorite stories is about a non-Jewish woman he met in The Netherlands. She discovered about 15 years ago that there were 182 people from her city that were deported to Auschwitz. Chami said the woman decided there should be a memorial in the city and took it upon herself to build it.

“After they built the memorial, they started a ceremony once a year on the date the Jews were deported,” Chami said.

The Zemachs just happened to be there on that date during this journey and were invited to participate.

“The ceremony is actually a walk through the town on the route where they made the Jews go to the railway station. So about 200 people walked in the evening,” he said. “The girls had the opportunity to put the flowers on the memorial. We were the only Jews there,” he said.

Chami said the journey to this point has met their expectations.

“Of course we have had many surprises and have learned a lot everywhere we’ve been,” he said. “We’re very happy that we have had the opportunity to meet with so many people and to tell them about Israel and fill them in on daily life and not about the conflict.”

You can keep up with the Zemachs journey on Facebook at the The Israeli Family Project.

“We write every day about what we are doing and share our stories,” Chami said.

They also welcome emails at . Check out the family’s video on You Tube at www.il-family.com.

For Emily Adler, the essential part of her involvement with United Synagogue Youth is giving others a place to belong.

“I try my best to reach out at conventions and talk to as many kids as I can,” she said. “It’s one thing to get people to come to conventions but (I want) to get them to feel like someone will notice if they’re not there… I try to reach out and try to make people feel comfortable.”

Known as Emi to her friends and family, the 18-year-old Adler is the regional membership and Kadima vice president for USY and held a similar position in the local USY group last year.

This month’s Salute to  Youth honoree, who is the daughter of Meg and Randy Adler, likes that she can make a difference by being in these positions.

“This year we’ve really tried to approach USY as a community rather than a youth group. It’s a place where everyone can feel at home and feel accepted,” said Emi, who is a member of both Congregation Beth Shalom and The Temple, Congregation B’nai Jehudah.

Many of the teens involved with USY have attended the Herzl or Ramah summer camps. Having attended camp at Ben Frankel, Emi knows what it’s like to join USY and not know very many people. She wants everyone to experience the inclusionary spirit she did.

“Freshman year at the spring convention, I went not knowing a single person my age. There were 14 other freshman girls in my cabin — by the end, we were like a family,” she said.

Stefanie Williams, director of informal education and youth activities at Beth Shalom, says she’s impressed by Emi’s commitment to USY and her enthusiams for the youth organization is “unrivaled.”

“She was very enthusiastic about it and came to every weekly program and really wanted to create a place for other people like it had been for her,” Williams said.

According to Williams, Emi comes in extra early to prepare for programs and stays late to assist with the clean-up.

“There’s a nice camaraderie ... Her efforts are definitely appreciated by all, and she’s inspired other people to come early and set up and be a part of it from start to finish,” Williams said. “It’s neat to see somebody find their place and just excel.”

Emi also participated in an organized trip to Poland and Israel in 2010.

“It was such an eye-opening experience. We had a lot of regional board members on our trip. They inspired me to reach out and be myself and make friends without any regrets,” she said.

The content of the trip also provided a learning experience for her.

“Going to Poland, you can read and go to museums and learn as much as you can about the Holocaust, but the thing that really gets you is being able to reach out and touch things and realize people were there … It made me appreciate Israel so much when I got there,” she said.

Outside of youth group, Emi is a senior at Blue Valley North High School. An avid debater, she is also involved with Future Business Leaders of America. She has competed at various levels with FBLA, placing first in the district and third in the state last year.

In the classroom, she serves as a teacher’s aide in the advanced computer applications class, helping students learn the Microsoft Access database program.

“It’s really fun. The business department at my school is great, and I’ve gotten a lot out of working with a variety of teachers there,” Emi said.

She plans to attend the University of Missouri and major in business with a minor in Spanish. While in college, she wants to stay connected to the Jewish community through Hillel and by attending synagogue in Columbia, Mo.

Emi isn’t sure of her exact career goals but says she will probably work at her family’s business, Kansas City Audio-Visual, at some point.

“She’s just an amazing young lady who loves to make people happy and loves to be helpful,” Williams said. “She’s the person you know (who), even if you haven’t talked with her in a really long time, (will) be there for you. She’s going to be successful in the future because of it.”

WOUNDED MARINE UPDATE — A few weeks ago we published a story about Marine Corporal Yevgeniy Shenker’s injuries while serving our country in Afghanistan and the financial struggles his mother, Larisa Shenker, was facing as she helped him recover. NBC Action News picked up the story as well and following Beth Vaughan’s report, the Coalition to Salute America’s Heroes came forward with a $2,500 gift to the family. Mike Meyer, vice president for programming of the Coalition to Salute America’s Heroes, told NBC Action News the coalition makes these types of donations because, “It’s very important in their recovery that they have a loved one around to support them, because it can get pretty lonely in a hospital a thousand miles away.” So far there has been no word whether the Jewish community has set up an organized fund to help the Shenkers.

PRESIDENT RABBI — Rabbi Debbie Stiel of Temple Beth Sholom in Topeka has spent the past two years serving as president of the Midwest Association of Reform Rabbis. MWARR’s membership is a little more than 100, and its president’s main responsibility is planning the Annual Kallah. The Annual Kallah is early next week and Rabbi Stiel will conclude her term at that time. MWARR’s president also speaks for the rabbis in the region with the Central Conference of American Rabbis when the need arises. The meeting is in Phoenix, which is not a part of the region but, as Rabbi Stiel says, is a great place to go this time of year for Midwestern rabbis. “This conference is a wonderful way for us as rabbis to let our hair down and enjoy some time together and study. It’s been great for me to go to for years and this was my opportunity to give back by putting it together.

THE TEBOW PHENOMENON — Those of you who follow professional football, or even watch the  late-night comics, know all about Denver Broncos quarterback Tim Tebow. He is deeply religious and led the Broncos to a seven-game winning streak and a trip to the playoffs. He has been seen praying on the field, on the sidelines and lifting his fingers skyward to indicate praise and thanks to God. Tebow’s devotion to God (and Jesus) has been a topic of conversation this winter and Rabbi Arthur Nemitoff chose to share his thoughts about it in last week’s Bisseleh Bytes email blast sent to members of The Temple, Congregation B’nai Jehudah. He is allowing us to share his thoughts with our readers.

“Two weeks ago, a boy in our religious school approached me and asked if I thought Tim Tebow’s prayers to God helped him and the Broncos win,” Rabbi Nemitoff wrote.

“It was an interesting question, and one that —with different variations —is asked all the time: ‘If I pray hard and sincerely, will Aunt Martha get better?’ ‘Let’s pray that Mommy gets the promotion.’ ‘I pray that God will bless and protect Israel.’ “

Rabbi Nemitoff’s response to the religious school student: “Prayer is ALWAYS good. It keeps US focused on that which is bigger than us. I don’t know if God listens (and responds) to Tim Tebow’s prayers ... but I do know that Tim Tebow listens to his own words ... and is inspired to be the best that he can be as a result.”

When most people hit “retirement age,” they retire. Eileen Garry didn’t take that route. Instead she began working for what was then known as the Museum Without Walls. Almost exactly 20 years later, Garry quietly retired as executive director of The Kansas City Jewish Museum of Contemporary Art late last year.

Now 86, Garry has assumed the title of executive director emeritus. She was supposed to retire early this year, but stepped back sooner than expected when she needed to undergo a hip replacement. She has recovered from the surgery, and plans to stay active with the gallery.

“If somebody needs me for something, I will be happy to pitch in,” she said during a recent interview at her home. “This is like my baby. I brought it from nowhere to this, and I think we’ve done a good job with it.”

She has absolutely loved working with the organization and said “it was probably the best period of time in my life, period.”

“I loved working with the people,” she continued. “I would have continued on, but I’m too old. I’m sorry it’s over, but they needed somebody young and adorable to come in and do what I did. I’ve done good stuff.”

Marcus Cain has taken over for Garry as KCJMCA’s executive director. He served as curator during Garry’s tenure, and is excited to continue working with her in a new capacity.

“Working with Eileen has been a true gift. Her contributions to the development and vitality of KCJMCA and her advocacy for artists and their work for the past 20 years in this organization is an incredible legacy that will live on for generations,” Cain said.
“She continues to be a source of inspiration and support for me personally as well as for everyone at KCJMCA. I am looking forward to this new chapter in our friendship. Knowing Eileen, she will continue to do amazing work in this community, and I look forward to following her progress.”

It’s undergone a variety of name changes over the year, but its mission has remained constant. KCJMCA’s purpose is to provide innovative art exhibitions and related programming that engage seniors and diverse audiences from all segments of our community to enrich lives and celebrate our common humanity through art. KCJMCA realizes this goal through its celebrated Epsten Gallery venue at Village Shalom and through its Museum Without Walls exhibition partnership program.

Garry is proud of KCJMCA’s successes and always shares the credit with those she’s worked with over the years.

“We’ve had some wonderful people who have been on staff … and they set the tone for our exhibits,” she said.

Regina Kort, who recently finished her term as president of KCJMCA’s board, said Garry has been the organization’s heart and soul from the very beginning.

“Because of her dedication, enthusiasm and hard work our organization has evolved into one of the premier spaces in the Kansas City area that features up-and-coming regional and national artists. We have been fortunate to have an executive director of Eileen’s caliber,” Kort said.

A devoted volunteer

Garry moved to Kansas City from New York in 1946 as the wife of Marshall Garry. She served as a “professional volunteer” for several years, while raising three children, Joshua, Paul and Stephanie (today all are married with children, and Garry now has three great grandchildren).

Over the years she accepted leadership roles in a variety of organizations including (but not limited to) her children’s school, Jewish Federation of Greater Kansas City, Jewish Family & Children Services, the Central Agency for Jewish Education and the National Conference for Community and Justice. As a founding member of Congregation Beth Torah and its third president, she still speaks passionately about the congregation and the Reform movement in general. Earlier, she was an active member of The Temple, Congregation B’nai Jehudah. During that time she served as an officer and board member, president of its sisterhood and spent six years representing the congregation on the national board of what is now known as Women of Reform Judaism.

Becoming an art aficionado

Garry’s involvement with the Museum Without Walls came at the invitation of Sybil Kahn in 1992. Kahn and her late husband, Norman, founded the organization.

“I was a volunteer and I loved it and then I went to work with her,” Garry reminisced. “We had a really good relationship.”

KCJMCA Past President Michael Klein noted that the board worked closely with Garry over the years to stabilize the organization through the creation of an endowment, two additional staff positions, the successful completion of a five-year strategic plan and a solid foundation of private, individual donor support. He said over the past 20 years Garry has remained a constant presence at KCJMCA, originally working under Kahn, the former executive director, five KCJMCA presidents, three assistant directors, two curators and one administrative assistant.

Garry pointed out that it was Klein who suggested the Museum Without Walls move into Village Shalom before it opened to run the Epsten Gallery. The gallery space was donated by Bobby and Jackee Epsten. KCJMCA has run the gallery since its inception, but is only housed at Village Shalom. KCJMCA is a completely separate non-profit organization.

“We are not part of Village Shalom. We have to raise our own money to bring our exhibits in and those exhibits can cost anywhere between $6,000 and $10,000 each,” she said.

While she has always liked art, she didn’t consider herself an expert when she started this journey. Now she does.

“I adored art in my own way. I was not an aficionado. I was not a real art person. But Sybil taught me a lot about how to appreciate art and I’ve loved every minute of it,” she explained.

Garry can point to many highlights during her time as KCJMCA executive director. She is most proud of the reputation it has earned.

“The Epsten Gallery and the Kansas City Jewish Museum has become a real entity in Kansas City. There is no definitive Jewish art gallery in Kansas City. This is the closest that it comes,” Garry said.

She has enjoyed meeting many wonderful artists including Victor Babu, who taught ceramics at the Kansas City Art Institute for more than three decades, and ceramicist Irma Starr.

Then there was the exhibit of Herb Adler’s cut glass some years ago.

“It’s the most magnificent collection of cut glass, I think, in this part of the country. As a result it was shown at the Nelson. That is one of our highlights,” she said.

“I’ve adored meeting the artists,” she continued. “Some artists who came out of New York were discovered here and were picked up by the Nerman. Others were picked up by the Nelson.”

Then there are the successful fundraising campaigns she organized over the years, including UrbanSuburban, KCJMCA’s annual fundraiser that most recently raised almost $200,000 for the organization.

While she is no longer working every day, she hopes KCJMCA continues to be a vital part of the community.

“There’s nothing like us, that I know of, in Kansas City,” she said. “We have definitely made a name for ourselves.”