Seventh-grader goes from rejection to triumph with support from Sasone
How would you feel if you were excluded time and again by your classmates for behaving in a way you couldn’t control? As a parent, you would become saddened for your child.
Word is getting out that, with the help of Sasone, our children are being accepted, included and celebrated. Sasone is a program of CAJE/Jewish Federation that supports children with special needs so they can participate in Jewish educational experiences. This is the story of one of many families who have been helped by Sasone and would like to share their experience.
A Team Effort
The previous day camp Abbie Rieber attended had assured her parents that they could accommodate children with special needs. Then the camp kicked her out. Last summer, Abbie, a seventh-grader at Indian Woods Middle School, had the courage to try again. Only this time she was going to camp at the Jewish Community Center. And this time, with Sasone involved, Abbie was accepted, included and, most importantly, successful in achieving her goals.
“First, before camp started, we had a meeting with parents and paraprofessionals,” said Felicia Holcomb, a Sasone consultant assigned to work with families and staff at the JCC camps. “Parents and paras were able to sit down and talk about their child’s interests and needs, share IEPs (individual education plans), discuss strategies that were effective at home and school, and agree on goals for camp.”
Prior to the start of camp, paras met again with parents and interacted with the children to whom they were assigned, so that by the time camp started the paras were fully equipped to ensure a successful experience for everyone involved.
No Worries
For many children with special needs, camp presents distinct challenges. Unlike school, camp has a less structured environment with indoor and outdoor activities led by senior and junior counselors, most of whom have no experience supervising special needs youngsters.
“Abbie is very smart academically, but has a hard time talking to other people and wants to be the center of attention,” said her mother, Suzy Siegler Rieber. “At school, she goes along with the program, but at camp she needed more breaks and redirection. She came to the JCC camp really worried that, if she was herself, she would be kicked out. They immediately assured her that being kicked out wasn’t an option.”
Every afternoon, Abbie came home with a written summary from her Sasone consultant or para of the day’s activities — what she learned, what was challenging and how it was handled — which Rieber found helpful to spark constructive conversations with her daughter.
“I cannot stress too much the importance of parent involvement,” said Holcomb. “It helps the paras feel confident, gives us accurate information and helps keep goals consistent at both home and camp.”
Supporting Our Kids
The ultimate challenge for Abbie was whether she would be able to manage her emotions in order to participate in the final performance at theater camp, one of the many specialty camps the JCC offers each summer. To everyone’s delight, Abbie did a wonderful job.
“I give a lot of credit to Sasone for helping her with that,” Rieber said.
After JCC camp ended, Abbie spent two weeks in the Tikvah program for adolescents with special needs at Camp Ramah in Colorado.
“I felt like her experience at the JCC gave her the confidence to succeed at sleep-away camp,” said Rieber. “I’ve drunk the Sasone Kool-Aid. I think they do a wonderful service to these kids who just have challenges. And a lot of kids do now. We encourage others to join us in helping to support Sasone.”
Sasone has been generously supported through the years by foundations and many individuals in our community. Still, the number of families that need help continues to grow.
“Camp costs more than everything else we do year-round,” said Sasone’s Holcomb. “Unlike Sunday school and other programs that are a few hours a week, camp is full-time for eight weeks and involves the most children.
“People don’t realize that Sasone relies on donors. This is all made possible by generous contributions from our community, and every little bit makes a big difference.”
Visit www.sasone.org for more information about Sasone and to help other kids like Abbie.