Ethel Ardow, born on June 22, 1928, in Będzin, Poland, passed away peacefully on Jan. 20.
She was one of six children born to Cyvia and Henoch Obornik and lived a life defined by resilience, devotion to family and a deep love for people.
Ethel was a Holocaust survivor whose courage and strength shaped everything that followed. She outlived most of the people who tried to murder her and carried that survival forward with grace, gratitude and an unshakable spirit.
She married Elias “Luscha” Ardow of Stockholm, Sweden, and devoted herself to caring for him throughout his life. She continued working for as long as she was able so she could provide for and take care of her beloved husband.
Ethel worked for 40 years at the New York Bakery and Delicatessen, where she became a beloved fixture in the community. People would stop her wherever she went to say, “You used to make me the best sandwiches!” She delighted in seeing her grandchildren and familiar faces come to visit her at the bakery, always welcoming them with warmth and joy.
Ethel always had a smile on her face and a positive word of encouragement for everyone she met. She loved going to The J for water aerobics and massages, and she took great joy in cooking and baking for those she loved. Saturday nights were often spent hosting lively card games, a tradition she cherished.
Above all, Ethel delighted in her family and the many people whose lives she touched. Her warmth, humor, resilience and generous spirit will be deeply missed and forever remembered.
She is survived by her children, Sylvia Agard (James (z”l)) and Edward Ardow of Stockholm, Sweden.
Her grandchildren are Michael Agard of Fukuoka, Japan; Alyssa Agard of Prairie Village, Kansas; and Anja Folkman (Trevor Lyall), Erik Bääth Ardow (Christoffer Svensson) and Isabella Bääth Ardow, all of Sweden. Her great-grandchildren include Laura Folkman Lyall and Katrina Folkman Lyall of Sweden. She is also survived by her nieces and nephews.
In lieu of flowers, the family suggests contributions to the Midwest Center for Holocaust Education, Kansas City Hospice or a charity of one’s choice.
Graveside services were held on Jan. 22 at Mt. Carmel Cemetery.
Online condolences for the family may be left at louismemorialchapel.com.